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One of my friend recently ask why my blog once again being left behind without being updated regularly and it came to one answer which is lazy.I might said that I'm busy with my all new healthy lifestyle (self claim) but the truth my brain didn't consume enough news or scenario while my laziness surge to the highest level.I'm so sorry for my followers even though I didn't have more than 2 dozens of it.Somehow while doing something private last weekend, I end up picking this topic.Can you bf turn out as someone special for you?However I end up left the title as a questionnaire in my slow-growth thinking.

Let begin with what are best friend for?Wide range of community from various background and experience might give a thousands of answer while it came to a conclusion.Best friend is someone that you will go to share your joys and your tears with him/her being loyal and ready to serve at all time.However best friend shouldn't be underestimate as your servant.In my opinion, a best friend should offer you a platform for you to lay down and be at rest so that you will feel better after every think that happen that make mess in your head.Whether a girl as a boy bf or vice versa they will play the same role.This relation is not a function of gender.As long both party satisfy their own need then they'll a best friend.Somehow should they end up as a couple?

Couple, soul mate or what ever name you give will bring to a definition of two person that like and love each other and have the willingness to share the joy and the pain with the highest level of passion,understanding and tolerance.This is just a simple definition that other people might add more and more beautiful words to define couple.From the definition I can roughly say that the only difference is no feeling involve when one's is a best friend to a person.Feeling make the relation more colorful and wonderful.It add up more and more feelings.Love might somehow break in the middle that bring in a lot of damages.The loser will be with lack of self confidence, crying over the past, regretting their past decision and a lot more misery.This unlikely to happen in a best friend relation.

Should your bf is your soul mate?Some people might say yes and some might say no.Somehow I love to have my bf as my soul mate.This is because we already understand and share a lot of experience from the past.We had learn each other character and all this while the only thing missing is feelings.Breaking up might be an issue but will it likely to happen?Insufficient understanding and tolerance with lack of passion will bring an abrupt end to a relation.This situation less likely to happen because a bf surely being able to tolerate to their friend.All the while they should being very understanding and passionate.How about you?Let your being heard through my comment. :P