Salam...


Hi guys, how are you doing?I hope everything goes just fine.Lately I find that not much to talk about.Nothing interesting with my life neither the surrounding.Searching for a topic cost me more than a week and I was fortunate to found it last night.I'm not sure whether I've talked about it before or not.If I do so then I'm so sorry.

For several days I've been consulting a junior bout her relationship.It is true that I'm not a 'champion' in the field.However I think if I can share my opinion and sucking experience, then why not.A couple years ago I've had met the similar situation.In this condition girl's are giving too much but learn the opposite wasn't willing to give that much which the conclusion will disaster.I categorize this circumstance under manipulation.

Less than 10 percent of my life spend playing with love but it means a lot.Love is not a single way but it is a to and fro.You can't give all your life without receiving any.If that happen it'll exploitation.You're more or less being a banker for your partner.You gain something your partner call love but you loose a lot of thing.For manipulation, they exploit your weakness to gain advantage.In certain case is your feeling or your sincerity or might be trustworthy.

It doesn't matter whether it is a girl or a boy but both have ego.None is fool and none is too strong.It is a matter of time before the right person meet you and you'll turn from solid to liquid.From flammable to cool and relax person.Love is too powerful if you meet the right person.Somehow it is the vice versa if it is the wrong person.Life might turn from what suppose to be a wonderful memory lane to black and dark alley.Whether it is exploitation or manipulation both wasn't a good way to live a relation.

How to solve it?In my opinion both sides need to face the music.The threaten need to be brave to decide and face the future.They need friends and people around them to be the pillar.Cheer them up and bring back the smile.Convince them that life is much better with us and it is not about their partner alone.Another sides which might claim they're stronger and clever might face an abrupt end to their fairytale or they just might to find another tale to live with.

No love is meant to be like this.There's give and take.No one way traffic.If you sacrifice then they should do the same.Life is about being strong and look for the future.I admit that I was weaken by the past but it makes me stay on my own feet all the time.After all the acknowledgement should be on my friends.They didn't know but they do bring back the light.For those whom being manipulate or exploit, face the music and be strong.Support will be everywhere and you shouldn't worry.All the best everyone.

date Wednesday, January 13, 2010

1 comments to “cobaan”

  1. ayun
    January 13, 2010 at 2:31 PM

    wooW. trase siot. hahahaa